Voice of Thanks – Simon Cowell Moved to Tears on America’s Got Talent

Gratitude now has a voice. We as fathers need to be encouraged to be thankful, so we can encourage our children to be the same. Thankful people are happy people. Thankful families are happy families.

I even try to teach this to myself, but some things are better caught than taught!

When my friend Mark Powell sent me the video below, I nearly leapt out of my skin with excitement.

Mark had this to say:

“This is one of the most moving videos you will see this year. It involves a young, thirty-year-old woman named Jane Marczewski, who currently has cancer in her lungs, spine and liver. She has been given a 2% chance of survival. Marczewski — who goes by the name ‘Nightbirde’ when she sings — recently appeared on America’s Got Talent, where she received a golden buzzer for her performance.”


Jane Marczewski’s video has been viewed over 21 million times. What’s more, her song ‘It’s Ok’ has been trending as one of the most popular songs on iTunes. Marczewski’s backstory though, is heartbreaking.

Marczewski, in a blog post titled ‘Bald Girl in the Dark’, cuts to the quick:

“Two days before my 29th birthday, I made a clay bowl on a potter’s wheel. I found that it doesn’t matter how long you’ve been at it, one wrong move can make a carefully crafted piece suddenly unrecognizable, thudding around like a flat tire. Then the only choice you’ve got is to take the clay off and start over.

At the time, I didn’t realize it was a metaphor. My whole world was about to lose form.

On New Year’s Eve, I was diagnosed with terminal cancer. Innumerable tumours were found throughout my lungs, liver, lymph nodes, ribs, and spine. I was on the living room floor leaning over the report, head in my hands. Six months to live. Two percent chance of survival…

I was a stranger in my body, far from home, cradling my own bones. I was a bald girl in the dark…

One afternoon, I got a letter from a New York Times best-selling author, of whom I am a huge fan. She sent a short note and some chocolate, and when I opened it, I collapsed on the bed sobbing.

I ate the entire chocolate bar horizontally as tears soaked my pillow. I don’t remember what the note said, I don’t remember what kind of chocolate it was. All I know is that it tasted like God was trying to tell me He was sorry. He wanted me to know that there was some sweetness left.

A line from my favourite poem says this:

“There’ll be days like this, my mama said,
When you open your hands to catch,
And wind up with only blisters and bruises…

When your boots fill with rain,
and you’ll be up to your knees in disappointment.

And those are the very days you have all the more reason to say thank you

Because there’s nothing more beautiful
than the way the ocean refuses to stop kissing the shoreline,
no matter how many times it is sent away.”

I haven’t come as far as I’d like, in understanding the things that have happened this year. But here’s one thing I do know: when it comes to pain, God isn’t often in the business of taking it away…

I am still reeling, drenched in sorrow. I am still begging, bargaining, demanding, disappearing. And I guess that means I have all the more reason to say thank you, because God is drawing near to me.”

So why am I sharing this story with you? Well, firstly, there is a dad story here behind the voice of thanks. There usually is!Marczewski family

This is what Jane Marczewski said in her blog titled, ‘If I must break’:

The morning after I heard about the tumors in my body, I staggered down the stairs, gray-faced. My dad met me in the doorway to the kitchen with arms I fell into. He cradled my head and said, “You’ll always be my girl with the million-dollar smile.” I pressed my head even deeper into his chest, and he said it again, “You’ll always be my girl with the million-dollar smile.”

Every daughter needs a father who will do that for his girl. Read for yourself. Her dad was a profound encouragement to Jane at her lowest ebb. That’s what Dads do!

Secondly, if we want to have a happy family, we must teach gratitude to our children. If we are to teach gratitude, we must first be grateful ourselves. Trust me — gratitude is catching.

Besides, the science proves that being thankful is the best way to have a happy family.


This video is mainly for you as a father. To inspire you to a greater level of gratitude. As a man said,

“I complained because I had no shoes, until I met a man who had no feet.”

Children will follow your actions more than your words. Having said that, your teenage children could get a lot out of watching this video. Perhaps even late primary-age children could enjoy Jane Marczewski’s story and music. I will leave that up to you.

Yours for more gratitude,
Warwick Marsh

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About the Author:

Warwick Marsh has been married to Alison Marsh since 1975; they have five children and nine grandchildren, and he and his wife live in Wollongong in NSW, Australia. He is a family and faith advocate, social reformer, musician, TV producer, writer and public speaker.

Warwick is a leader in the Men’s and Family Movement, and he is well-known in Australia for his advocacy for children, marriage, manhood, family, fatherhood and faith. Warwick is passionate to encourage men to be great fathers and to know the greatest Father of all. The Father in Whom “there is no shadow of turning.”

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